Enemy in disguise

An enemy is not anyways as dangerous as the one who's disguising his identity as a friend.He's an actor in your circle. He's just an opportunist in a disguised form. Believe me while befriending anyone understood his nature seriously. Likewise some relatives do also exist in your social circles with such an opportunistic mindset, always acting behind the curtains, against you. And when the curtains fall surprise is the outcome. 

اس بار انجمن میں دریں پردہ سارے کردار کھول گیے

ہماری سادگی پہ قربان

ساری کہانی ہوگئی 

اسقدر انجام ہوا 

ساری جوانی کھو گئی 

کچھ نیلام سے ہو گیے 

کہ کہی حصّوں میں ہو گئے 

 اور جو کبھی نازاں ہوئے تو 

قسطوں میں بک گیے 

اس  بار انجمن میں دریں پردہ 

سارے کردار کھول گیے 

A Good Life is a Miracle to a Common Man

For a common man miracles happen only in dreams. And having a good life is just a miracle. A life where he possess enough resources to manage his life affairs. Where he himself claims that he's satisfied. 

ہماری اوقات بھی بس اتنی

ہماری اوقات بھی بس اتنی

کہ پل میں گر جائے اور مٹی ہو جائے 

Life's All About Decisions

 In the end it's your decision that matters. A good decision is always applauded but not a bad one. To make a good one get educated, get trained, read enough good stuff and ask those who're knowledgeable. If you're not doing any of these things you're messing with your life. 

کہ ہماری ہار کا سودا ہمارے ہی دوست کے گھر ہوا

اور پھر جنگ میں ہوتے ہوئے 

اس ہار کا احساس ہوا

کہ ہماری ہار کا سودا 

ہمارے ہی دوست کے گھر ہوا 

ہماری تعریف

ہمارے لئے گویا ہم بھی

کسی خطرے سے کم نہیں 

Believe in yourself

Let you know you're not weak and you're among the strongest. It's often your self - concept that matters. Make it work for you in some progressive ways. Tell yourself you're gonna to come out where you were lost. It's often our own negativity that often engulfs our strengths.

Don't let others decide whether you can or you can't make it. It's just you who really knows whether you're gonna to conquer it or not. Let you own your all strengths, all energies and let you only control them, execute them. After all this's gonna to impact not within you but in the outside also. 

Change! Change! Change

I've gone through and finally imbibed it that, it's far better to improve yourself instead of trying to change others. I think it's safe, positive and in control.

People can't be blamed at all times. Sometimes it's your own approach that's hurting you than those surrounding you. It's paining as you're being in pain and hurt without any cut. This's where you deserve to reconstruct your thoughts and go enthusiastically with a new vision.

You've understood that this version of you is hurting you and it's because of that you've evolved with a new form of adaptability and execution. 

Introspect! If it stands true and if so, change! Change! Change!. 

Tomorrow is more challenging than today

They're lying to you if they're telling you that tomorrow is going to be easy for you. It's going to be with a lot of responsibilities and many unexpected challenges. A lot of issues that need to be resolved. It's as you've to make the life of your family more better than yours. It's when you're your last priority in a family.It's when you've to be enough strong to let go your past and prepare for the next upheavals. It's when you're challenging your own set goals. 

تیرے سوا کون یہ انتظام کرے

 میں نہ جاؤں کسی اور در پر

تیرا سوا کون یہ انتظام کرے 

کچھ اپنے لیے بھی جی لیا کرو

زندگی میں تھوڑا اپنے لیے بھی جی لیا کرو, کہی ایسا نہ ہو دوسروں کو خوش کرنے میں تمہاری زندگی گزر جائے

Patience builds strength

 Being an active listener needs patience and being patient is a reflection of being matured. And being matured means you're responsible and a trust worthy guy. 

جب کہ اب کوئی گزرا نہیںتب پھر جا کے اُسکی یاد آئی

جب کہ اب کوئی گزرا نہیں

تب پھر جا کے اُسکی یاد آئی 

لوگ لفظوں سے خریدے جاتے ہیں

میں بھی نہ سمجھ سکھا پھر 

کہ لوگ  لفظوں سے خریدے جاتے ہیں 

چپ رہا کرو

 جو کبھی ملال نہیں, جو کبھی غلا نہیں

بس چپ رہا کرو، بس چپ رہا کرو! 

Think Before You Act

Don't go randomly, because every activity displayed produces some consequences. They can be either harsh or pleasant. It's a time to rethink and go with some consciousness. Being a good decision maker means you've planned and being planned reveals you've researched already. And being researched means you've grown up. And you've grown-up means you're ready to share the responsibilities. This's what life really expects from you. 

Second Chance

Give yourself a chance to take a second chance. 

Only a real doctor cures, rest just sell

Only a real doctor knows the cure, rest just try to diagnose. So treat yourself cautiously as everyone outside isn't a real doctor but a good seller of drugs. 

Kasali(Laziness)

It refers to being lazy, procrastinating, and not willing to do what you supposed to do without real cause

Ajzi(Weakness)

It refers to Weakness in general that prevents you from doing what you want in the best way.

Hazan (Sadness)

Hazan refers to the past events that already happened and cause sadness and hurts despite not being able to do anything about it. Nothing is more beloved to Satan than the sadness of a believer.

Asking in an authentic way

“O Allah, I seek refuge in You from grief and sadness, from weakness and laziness, from miserliness and cowardice, from being overcome by debt and overpowered by men [people]”

Apologies help to fly high

Instead of justifying your wrongs end this all by being sorry. Apologizing give you a way to move forward and a step to give strength in your character. 

Underestimating others can be an attitude

At times people underestimate you by taking care of their only perspective. If they go consciously like that make them realize then by changing your behavior. 

Learn what really matters

Learn what's important like life and life affairs. Learn to build good social relationships and learn how to take good care of yourself. Learn to build a good business and learn what really matters in life. 

Teaching unrelated is harming

We don't really teach what actually life is and how we've to handle it. We're more concerned in understanding unseen astronomy and astrology. It's a foolish way of teaching as it just creates problems instead of helping in handling them. It's a paradigm that's not for the improvement but just to please our emotions and being controlled easily. 

Every relation deserves care to last

Humans are sensitivity so are their relations. Take good care of them. And it's difficult. 

Advice of Maturity

Being angry in a respectable way is not everybody's cup of tea. 

Everyone stands for his self

Never think, what matters for you, matters for others. Or they'll care as you expect. Everyone has it's own priorities. 

Don't Celebrate Too Early

Don't celebrate till it's not confirmed. Sometimes it turns out to be an illusion or something that was not permanent. 

You're what you've faced

It's the process that makes you, what you're. 

Being qualified means you're able but not complete

Being qualified means you possess a baseline set of skills, knowledge and experiences for a job. It doesn't reflect that you're a master of your arena or job. So improve with no breaks. 

Every step weighs

Take a step and take it everyday to succeed. 

"He it is Who created you from a single soul, and of the same did He make his spouse, that he might find comfort in her."

"He it is Who created you from a single soul, and of the same did He make his spouse, that he might find comfort in her."

(7:189).

"They (your wives) are as a garment to you, and you are as a garment to them."

"They (your wives) are as a garment to you, and you are as a garment to them." 

(2:187)

It’s not important when you get married, but it’s important whom you get married to

• It’s not important when you get married, but it’s important whom you get married to.

• Choose someone you want to be beside you in this Dunya and in Jannah in shaa Allah.

• Make the intention to improve yourself for the sake of Allah (SWT) first and consequently, your behavior with people will improve too.

• Allah (SWT) might not have answered your Dua yet, but it could be because He wants you to work on yourself to be ready for the blessing of marriage bi’idhnillah. 

After landing on a decision, remember to pray Istikhara and proceed with whatever decision you have settled on.

It was narrated that Anas said: “When the ‘Iddah of Zainab was over, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to Zaid: ‘Propose marriage to her on my behalf.’ Zaid went and said: ‘O Zainab, rejoice, for the Messenger of Allah ﷺ has sent me to you to propose marriage on his behalf.’ She said: ‘I will not do anything until I consult my Lord.’ She went to her prayer place and Qur’an was revealed…” 

[Hadith; Sunan an-Nasa’i 3251]

Al-Hasan said, “People never seek advice without being guided to the best possibility available to them.”

Al-Hasan said, “People never seek advice without being guided to the best possibility available to them.” Then he recited, “and manage their affairs by mutual consultation.” (42:38)

 [Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 258]

Prophet ﷺ said: “A woman may be married for four things: Her wealth, her lineage, her beauty or for her religion"

Prophet ﷺ said: “A woman may be married for four things: Her wealth, her lineage, her beauty or for her religion. Choose the religious, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”

 [Hadith; Ibn Majah 14]

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “The supplication of a Muslim for his (Muslim) brother in his absence will certainly be answered.

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “The supplication of a Muslim for his (Muslim) brother in his absence will certainly be answered. Everytime he makes a supplication for good for his brother, the angel appointed for this particular task says: ‘Ameen! May it be for you, too’.”
 [Hadith; Riyad as-Salihin 1495]

Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) said: Iblis places his throne upon water; he then sends detachments (for creating dissension)

Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) said: Iblis places his throne upon water; he then sends detachments (for creating dissension) ; the nearer to him in rank are those who are most notorious in creating dissension. One of them comes and says: “I did so and so.” And he says: “You have done nothing.” Then one amongst them comes and says: “I did not spare so and so until I sowed the seed of discord between a husband and a wife.” The Satan goes near him and says: “You have done well.” A’mash said: He then embraces him. 

[Hadith; Muslim 2813b]

[Hadith; Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1162

Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character among them. And the best of you are those who are best to your women.” 

[Hadith; Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1162]

[Quran; 30:21]

And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.

 [Quran; 30:21]

خود کی تلاش میں، زندگی نکل گئی

خود کی تلاش میں

 زندگی نکل گئی 

غربت کا بہترین توڈ، اچھی تربیت ہے. مگر اکثر لوگ غربت میں تربیت سے خالی رہتے ہیں. یہی وجہ ہے کہ غریب بیبس کا شکار ہو جاتا ہے

 غربت کا بہترین توڈ، اچھی تربیت ہے. مگر اکثر لوگ غربت میں تربیت سے خالی رہتے ہیں. یہی وجہ ہے کہ غریب بیبس کا شکار ہو جاتا ہے 

تیاری کل کی

 اپنے آپ کو کل کے لیے تیار رکو کی کل کا دن آج کے مقابلے میں آسان نہیں ہوگا.یہ سوچ ہی غلط ہے کہ آنے والے وقت میں کم چیلنجز کا سامنا کرنا پڑے گا 

اس خوش فہمی میں مت رہے کہ زندگی آپ کے مزاج اور مطابق گزرے گی

 اس خوش فہمی میں مت رہے کہ زندگی آپ کے مزاج اور مطابق گزرے گی 

آپ کی فکر میں جیتے ہیں

ایسے لوگ آپ کہاں سے لائین, جو آپ کی فکر میں جیتے ہیں

اک ماں باپ کے سوا اس دنیا میں ایسا ہمدرد کوئی بھی نہیں

بے قدروں کی دنیا میں،کوئی مقام ڈھونڈ رہا ہوں

بے قدروں کی دنیا میں،

کوئی مقام ڈھونڈ رہا ہوں

جسے کھونا آیا، اُسے جینا آیا

اسی سوچ میں کھو رہا ہوں 

They're keeping us busy virtually

They've planned to keep us busy virtually and they're growing physically. They're corrupting us mentally while they're expanding financially. Are you serious about all this what's going on.