Hypocrisy acts on character

While working on the morality aspect of human nature and getting an understanding of it from the multidisciplinary perspectives. What was recorded or goes as an observation, that humans by nature are ingrained with enough laziness. A strong weakness that acts on their character, as they often fail to full fill their commitments or any set targets. They believe and act differently. They even preach what's not in their habits.A style of going with a regular one word - sorry.You've rightly processed the lines and recalled it as the definition of hypocrisy.An approach of acting for some temporary rewards or some incentives of power. 

Firm to their morality standards, followed by genuine intentions to pursue them in the real life can't be generalised in the contemporary times, as men and women of any socal status or role fail to prove it as a reality. Only because everyone wants to pursue something that's within his or her scale of reach. Nobody here has desired patience, care and temperance to act with all possible outcomes. Nothing should go against you and that's where the natural laws don't bless you as it goes against it's own set standards. To make it anyhow a reality, men and women got oftenly engaged in a variety of hypocritical behaviours and through the compounding of that very behaviour are declared as men or women of hypocrisy. Ironically they then try to justify hypocrisy which's otherwise unjustifiable. And that's a false use of psychological defense mechanisms. And a wrong move to protect your ego from further disintegration. That's where it's called to be wired in your nature or developed in the personality. 

Work on your behaviour and personality and let you overcome the laziness(to act on your words and beliefs).Otherwise you've created a realm of hypocrisy and kingdom of falsehood. Wakeup, be patient, commit only what only is in your reach, nod with no if you can't handle, face the fear of being incomplete or growing up, stand on your principles and avoid being in an association of hypocrites. 

Speak with skills

Everyone has a strong covert desire to be more expressive or assertive. But there're many, who can be placed at the extremities on that scale. They articulate and speak out every stuff, not bothering about the required circumstances and any consequences.And are least patient to bother to listen to the patient listener.Though everyone has some share in it. Being at any ends on this scale reflects just mere deviation and poor communication skills.it impacts adversely on your personality.And that needs a strong intervention programme in the form of typical and regular counselling sessions or even sometimes more holistic approach like CBT is the last viable panacea. 

Nothing goes unobserved, a day will reach where your every word will be counted and achieves a strength to impact the all others.Now you're been taken seriously. And you're supposed to retake everything and rethink how your behaviour has been till date.

As time passes words gain real meanings and more strengthens their impacts on the surrounding people.So a wise go more silent or speaks on created scenarios. Grow with age and act with wisdom. That's what maturation is defined as. Otherwise be ready to face the wrath of your misconduct. So get trained to speak judiciously and let you be a better listener instead of being a bitter speaker or a vocalist. 

Life and its colors

Life has many colours. Sometimes you'll feel it as if that moment was only meant for you and you wish if it lasts far and far. But soon you're been placed somewhere where even men and women of potent integrity and patience do hardly raise their heads with any appealing composure. However, these days too pass and the very old scenarios of comfort, love, care, contentment,health, security, peace and prosperity again resurface out.The cycle continues but the time shrinks so does our lives. There comes again the circumstances that turn all your Highness into mere worries and chaos. Again there's a dip in hope, peace and all that's reared, cared or highly valued in a civilised society. You're destined to be there, as it's a style to console your digged soul and body and many claim it as if they're your own manifold manifestations and articulations. Who's there as mighty and sincere and thorough knowledgeable to decide on their such subjective and bias opinions. Probably none. The victims claim time dilation, as if there days and nights are not following a due course of time. As if they're stuck somewhere, so does is there life. While striving to find a new shore, when they actualize, they internalise time now has a few final days of their journey.And then again few more moments and a few more days of ease and then again the same old story. But the time goes on and so does the life. Finally the journey meets its final end and now more stories of pain are narrated anymore,anywhere. 

Moral:Make your life as meaningful as you can.It's not going to stop for you or go as you always wish or aspire. Take a stand and work for that. 

Patience strengthens man's powers

Sometimes the only choice left is that you've no choice other than to turn the no-choice into a perfect choice. This's where the real expertise and a strong passion to persist in the endurance works. You've survived in a game where only your patience and integrity can let you win. The manipulative narrations and tales with mere fabricated stories have already declared you as a victim and being lost in the fields.However, miraculously the pain to stay in the field was luckily rewarded. And the villain turned to be a tragic hero of the famous tale. 

Sociability Builds a Man of Conquests

A child grows and builds his self and the senses while growing and interacting in the various primary social circles. He's taking much from the outside. Attitude, emotions, perspectives, attires, interests, sociability and whatever he thinks or feels catchy. I've to let others mute and go only here for the socialisation. That's the traits that give you a competence and power to enjoy your surroundings and to manipulate it for your goodness. Never, take it as a second choice as it's one of the basic powers and skills of a functional human personality. If you're messing with it, you're definitely missing a great line of action and contentment in your life.

You deserve a good self image and a composed self esteem, when you're laced with the matured sociability skills and fortunately they evolve with the growing interactive experiences. You build your confidence and your company becomes the first selection of all, as you're always being celebrated and liked to be as talkative as you can go. Because they believe that you talk from the heart and you've enough nearness  and dearness for the people. You've great level of patience and highly supportive score in the temperance. You're destined to go high and you're always a man of smiles and happiness for the others. You can't handle alone all your worries but you've strived alot to make such a stuff more easier and bend towards a lighter mode. The softness in your tone and originality in your words has no parallel anywhere.It's not always as easier as imagined but you've decided and are pursuing a great cause. You're growing and conquering a land where positivity is cultured and smiles are harvested. 

Mental Toughness, your style

You don't wish to see them,but you're engaged there, you don't want to stay but you manage all their affairs,boredom has hit you but your interest is elevating, they're rude but you're carrying a beautiful smile with you,working with them don't makes a sense, still you lead them.Now they met and felt anxieties and frustrations, not because they're pure chaotic or they've decided to be so, but because they can't digest your style and attitude. This's how you've developed yourself. And this's nothing but growth and maturation and a typical prototype of a personality who's enough potent to turn a mess into some productivity. They're the highest virtues of human civilisation, you've decided to adopt, adapt and transmute. And not because you've to go necessarily through that, only you've decided to care and bear the pain of their ignorance or immaturity. They're weak, but they don't make a sense of their non sense. Their exaggeration has wings and it's colourful and they continue to go with that freaky world. 

Stay in your typically build composure, nothing their exits to run parallel with you. Go with it, refine more and build a sensory structure that's dead hard to be breached or to be broken. 

Child's Survival Set of Skills.

You're gonna to mess up with your life if you don't posses a survival skill set in the contemporary times. A survivability skill set is a group of skills that give you an enough competence and knowledge to love and live life better, to communicate efficiently,to get cared or be loved by family and friends or colleagues,to earn and to protect himself or herself from the harms of the physical and the social environments. A theoretical pool of knowledge can't be made to run parallel to a survival skill set.What's more important for men and women is an encyclopedia of survival knowledge and set of survival skills. Because that creates a powerful entity that can put the mess in order or to better something that's meagre ordered or beautified.

It's not mandatory that your child's school is gonna to take it's responsibility. If you've  learned vigorously and have got a strong survival skill set, transfer it the following generations. One of the best things that experience can do miraculously is it saves your life( and can save the future lives), by saving your savings, time and other resources. Act yourself as a legend of legacies and make the life of your child more better and meaningful.

Sociability, emotional Stability, good physique maintenance, vocationalisation, better communication skills,calculated risk taking, continuous exercise and mediation,self help, team spirit,social services, industriousness, integrity, resourcefulness and the knowledge of modern computer sciences are some of the vital traits and skills you need to inculcate in your growing child. However, you should act wisely in inculcating such a pool of survival knowledge and set of survival skills as they vary from culture to culture and society to society. 

A child is build, based on the type of knowledge, skills and experience he or she's is provided. Build him or her strong and get him or her strong enough to lead the survival race.