When everything goes wrong

When everything goes wrong 

. خود کو برا بنا کر  کہانی سے نکل جاو

Work continuously

Good things are hard to understand and work with in the beginning. And then with practice they became part of your life. 

Practical tips to be charactered

Developing a strong and admirable character involves cultivating values, behaviors, and habits that reflect integrity, kindness, and resilience. Here are practical tips to help you become more "charactered":

1. Define Your Core Values

Identify the principles you want to live by, such as honesty, compassion, responsibility, or perseverance.

Reflect on what matters most to you and let these values guide your decisions.

2. Practice Integrity

Be truthful in all your dealings, even when it’s difficult.

Align your actions with your words; do what you say you will do.

Avoid compromising your principles for personal gain.

3. Cultivate Empathy and Compassion

Try to understand and relate to the feelings and perspectives of others.

Act with kindness and be willing to help those in need without expecting anything in return.

4. Develop Self-Discipline

Set goals and consistently work towards them, even when motivation fades.

Resist temptations that divert you from your values or goals.

Create routines that help build habits like punctuality and accountability.

5. Learn from Mistakes

Accept that mistakes are opportunities for growth.

Reflect on your failures, take responsibility, and avoid blaming others.

Use setbacks as lessons to improve and strengthen your character.

6. Be Respectful and Tolerant

Treat everyone with respect, regardless of their background, beliefs, or status.

Embrace diversity and learn to value different perspectives.

Avoid judgmental behavior and practice patience. 

7. Practice Gratitude

Regularly reflect on the positives in your life and express thanks for them.

Acknowledge the efforts of others and appreciate their contributions. 

8. Show Humility

Recognize your strengths without arrogance and admit your limitations.

Be open to feedback and willing to learn from others.

Celebrate others' successes without envy or resentment.

9. Commit to Lifelong Learning

Continuously seek knowledge and self-improvement.

Read widely, engage in meaningful conversations, and stay curious about the world.

Strive to be better today than you were yesterday.

10. Build Resilience

Stay calm and positive in the face of challenges.

Develop problem-solving skills and maintain hope during tough times.

Cultivate mental strength to adapt and persevere. 

11. Be Generous

Share your time, knowledge, and resources to uplift others.

Volunteer for causes you care about and support community-building initiatives. 

12. Lead by Example

Inspire others by consistently embodying your values.

Be a role model for integrity, kindness, and determination in your personal and professional life.

Being "charactered" is a lifelong journey that requires consistent effort and reflection. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself while positively influencing those around you.

Kun Feyakuun

There are hearts crushed beneath the weight of life, souls bruised by trials beyond their strength. Used, broken, and forgotten, they no longer fight but surrender, their weary eyes fixed upon the boundless skies.

Oh, Lord of the heavens, with but a whisper"Kun Fayakun"let their anguish melt into peace. They wait in silence, not defeated but yearning, not hopeless but clinging to the promise of Your mercy. One command from You, and their darkness will turn to light.

تہذیب حافی

I once waited for a life without pain,

A calm beyond the storm, the strain.

But every year brought trials anew,

And dreams of ease never came true.

Now I see life’s beauty resides,

Not in its calm, but how we rise.

Each struggle shapes, each loss refines,

In the chaos, our strength aligns.

"مجھ کو ہر حال میں خوش رہنے کی عادت ہے 'حافی'

مجھ پہ دشوار ہیں غم، لیکن غمِ جاناں نہی"

God's Love

God’s power flows like an eternal river, carving mountains and filling oceans. His beauty blooms in every flower, whispers through the wind, and dances in the stars. In the silence of the soul, His presence shines-a light unending, a love unfathomable.

دل کے آئینے میں ہے تصویرِ یار

جب ذرا گردن جھکائی، دیکھ

دل ناامید تو نہیں، ناکام ہی تو ہےلمبی ہے غم کی شام، مگر شام ہی تو ہے

Men are forged by the trials they face, strengthened by adversity and the quiet support of loved ones. Their resilience, born of pain and perseverance, makes them powerful yet humble. Misjudged as stubborn or rude, few understand the depth of their journey and the scars that shaped their strength. They are warriors, not for the battles they fight, but for the grace with which they endure and rise.

غمِ زندگی سے کہہ دو کہیں اور جا کے بسےہم تھک گئے ہیں

They sit trapped in their own minds, overthinking storms they cannot control. The illness is gone, but its shadow lingers, feeding on imagined fears. What if? What now?—questions that steal the present, chaining them to futures that may never come.

But life whispers softly: Let go. The sun rises without command, the rivers flow without permission. True freedom lies not in control but in trusting the unknown. In letting go, they might finally find peace.

غمِ زندگی سے کہہ دو کہیں اور جا کے بسے

ہم تھک گئے ہیں دل کو سمجھاتے سمجھاتے

(پروین شاکر) 

Maturity and Ghalib

Maturity is when you realize people can't give you what they can't give themselves, so you stop expecting loyalty from people who betray themselves, stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves, and stop expecting peace from people who are at war with themselves.

دل ہی تو ہے نہ سنگ و خشت، درد سے بھر نہ آئے کیوں

روئیے زار زار کیا، کیجیے ہائے ہائے کیوں

(غالب)