Maqsood Ahmad
Giving power to the words.
Sunday, 13 July 2025
Heal yourself through some productive work
Heal yourself until it's too late. Healing doesn't mean you keep isolating yourself. Always have something productive to do.
Wednesday, 25 June 2025
Story of pain, from boys
The pain of boys is rarely spoken, yet deeply lived. Behind every silent nod and forced smile is a burden carried quietly — not for applause, but for approval. They mold their dreams to fit the expectations of others, often women they love and respect, hoping to be enough, to be seen, to be worthy.
They sacrifice sleep, comfort, pride — even parts of their identity — just to earn a word of praise, a look of acceptance. And yet, their struggles are rarely acknowledged. They cry inwardly, patch their own wounds, and rise each day with renewed resolve, driven not by recognition, but by the hope that their silent efforts will one day be understood.
This is the untold story of many boys — warriors not of war, but of emotion. Fighters, not for victory, but for belonging.
Remembering your weak past
Remembering a weak or painful past in a constructive way can be a powerful motivator for growth, discipline, and success. Here are practical and emotional tips to help someone keep that past in mind — not to feel defeated, but to stay hungry and focused:
✅ Tips to Remember Your Weak Past for Motivation
1. Write It Down Clearly
Create a personal journal entry about what you went through — the struggles, the failures, the pain.
Be honest and detailed. Include how it made you feel.
Reread it occasionally, especially when you're tempted to quit or feel complacent.
2. Use Visual Reminders
Keep a symbolic object, quote, or even an image from that phase in a visible place.
E.g., an old photo, worn-out notebook, rejection letter, or motivational sticky note.
3. Create a “Never Again” Statement
One short, powerful sentence that reminds you:
“Never again will I allow myself to be that helpless / weak / unprepared.”
Repeat it to yourself in the mirror when you need a push.
4. Visit Old Places Occasionally
Go back (mentally or physically) to the places where you struggled — a broken classroom, a failed exam center, an old home.
Let the contrast fuel your desire to keep rising.
5. Mentally Reframe the Pain
Don’t see your past as shameful — see it as your raw material.
It’s not your weakness; it’s your origin story.
6. Help Others in That Place
Mentor or guide someone who’s now where you once were.
This keeps your past alive in your heart while transforming it into service and pride.
7. Keep Your "Before" and "After" in Mind
Keep a timeline:
Before (low point): “I failed NEET in 2023. No confidence.”
Now (climbing): “I’ve completed 60% syllabus. I solve mock tests every week.”
8. Reflect Often, but Don’t Drown in It
Set a “reflection hour” once a week: think about where you were, where you are, and where you're going.
But don’t live in the past — just visit it for fuel.
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🔥 Bonus Affirmation:
> “I remember where I started, so I’ll never stop moving forward.”
Thursday, 19 June 2025
True Dervesh
نہ تاج و تخت میں ہے، نہ لشکر و سپاہ میں ہے
جو بات مردِ قلندر کی بارگاہ میں
Neither in crowns and thrones, nor in armies and battalions,
Exists that grandeur which is found in the presence of a true dervish.
Thursday, 12 June 2025
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